Meeting New People
Recently I’ve been using a lot of resources on the net to meet people. You guys know about stormy, who I met through myspace. I”ve done the personals thing, obviously you know I’ve done the adult friend finder thing. Its been a lot of fun lately.
5 years ago though when I was meeting people they all seemed to have had an adverse reaction to me being up front about what I do for a living. Now lets be honest, I’m not the best looking kid, and when you add in the fact that I work in the adult biz its a lot of stuff for a woman to swallow… and most women dont swallow 
Whats fascinating now though, when I’ve been meeting folks recently I’ve been very up front about what I do and they’ve been very accepting. Chances are most of them will read this entry and I’m really greatful about it. Stormy is of course in the adult field so you know she understands, Des is a sweet heart and treats me better than most people should. April is always kind to me even when we agree to disagree.
All of these people have met me and known right off the bat I work in adult. Its been a good time, too.
So I wonder whats changed? I certainly havent gotten any cuter, I know that. I think its a sign of the times, honestly. Girls are going down on guys before they ever have sex, for example. When I was a kid a blowjob was ’something special’ but for a lot of younger folks these days its almost like a handshake.
The internet has been in the lives of most people for quite a while and porn has been a part of the internet the entire time. so what if its just that? They’re finally getting used to it?
I like to believe that’s it and if its true I’m real glad. If not for me, but for your kids and your kids kids. I hope they’re as open minded and as accepting as the people who have been in my life recently have been. 
All of my friends, from greg to joe, know what I do for a living. I love em for accepting it. 
maybe I dont tell them that enough.
August 23rd, 2005 at 8:49 pm
yeah, we know whatcha do for a living.
the people who really care about you couldn’t care less. it’s part of who you are (and who you have been for the eight years or so i’ve known ya) and it’s all kewl.
the ones who freak out…are either jealous or not worth your time anyway. ;^)
August 24th, 2005 at 1:51 pm
YOU MAKE WEBSITES THAT HAVE PORNOGRAPHIC MATERIAL?
I THOUGHT I KNEW YOU, BOOGIE
I THOUGHT I FUCKING KNEW YOU