Real Sex
Real Sex
Lets talk about real sex, for a change. Sure here at the blog and on most porn sites you’ll see porn as treated as… well, not right.
Let me say that if you’re looking at ‘normal’ vanilla sex and all the actors involved are smiling and happy and clearly having a good time, reaching mutual satisfaction… and that’s what makes you happy, hey, I dont have a real problem with it. I encourage you to download more and more of that kind of stuff from sites like First Time Video Girls and Met-Art and enjoy your time on this site and most others. You’re free to go.
Also if you’re into a particular niche… lets say, Very Large Natural Breasts or Lesbian Threesomes and the like, and you’re only outlet for this is the internet… well, congratulations. You’re the healthy consumer I want to visit my site and have a great day. We love you 
But, there are types of porn out there that concern me deeply and I want to talk about those for a moment. But first let me talk about real sex as this is the point of this article.
real sex is a beautiful thing and most often it takes place between two folks who have some mutual attraction. Surely there are women out there who are quite loose and there are men out there who have conquested dozens and dozens of women and some of this starts as early as high school for some of them. But for the most part, your average 30 year old man claims ‘12′ sexual partners and your average 30 year old woman claims 6. Surely the math is a little off there, it sounds like men count every last rub and tug he’s ever enjoyed and women only count the ‘important’ experiences… so lets even those numbers out and call it 8 per person in the world by the age of 30.
8.
Lets imagine you became sexually active at 15, that means less than 1 partner a year and a half. That’s not a lot folks, its certainly not something you’ll see rivaled in porn where everyone is loose and women screw constantly and love it, men have 9 inch cocks that are continously erect for 12 hours a day and everyone is shaved hairless, has toned abs, and wears enough makeup to leave an mask on the pillow after getting their face plowed into it from behind.
Its just simply not real. End of story.
The adult industry is an “entertainment” genre, and like most entertainment fields it is one of make believe. Just like Tom Hanks didnt actually live on a deserted island for 2 years, not every porn girl likes to fuck and suck a million guys in their daily life. Certainly not every woman feels that way. In fact, most only find a new partner every couple of years.
that’s fact
While working with my friend Donny from Donnys Girls i watched quite a few interviews he did with girls. How many of these women were not sexually adventerous? How many had shared only a handful of partners? Most. Some of them owned no toys of their own. Some didnt even masturbate. Some had never experienced orgasm. Its a simple fact of life that even the women who will take their clothes off for money are not sluts, or whores.
So, the one thing I want you to take from all of this is that internet porn is not real, it is fantasy. Do not expect real women to act this way. Sure, you may be the 1 guy in a million that finds a girl like this and has her drink your cum like its the best tasting drink in the world or blow bubbles in it or fuck you until you’re raw and beg for more and hey that’s great, really it is. Go hit adult friend finder and find her
But it just doesnt work that way for 99% of women. Dont expect it to.
If you really want to know how to lay the girl you’ve got a crush on or how to make her happy its pretty simple.
Clean up a little, put on some nice clothes, dont act like an idiot, dont pressure her, treat her like a queen and eventually, if you dont fuck up, she’ll want to be with you given time. its pretty simple.
If you are lucky enough to be one of the 8 partners she chooses between now and 30 (and no sex doesnt end at 30, lol, its just the study i read stopped at that age), dont fuck it up. dont pressure her. Dont expect her to act any differently than the way she wants to act. dont try to dress her up like a slut or make her do things you’ve seen in porno films.
its a gift that she gives you, and you take it as it comes. maybe you make a few suggestions and tell her what you like but its her right to disagree and say no. she’s not a porn star and not every woman will act the way you want her to. Move on and find someone who will, unless, its based to far into fantasy. you’ll find as you work your way through your ‘twelve’ partners that what you’re looking for maybe just isnt out there.
Especially if the only thing you know is the porn world.
Now, for those of you who enjoy the porn world and know its a fantasy that’s great. If you use it for a substitute while you’re lonely or while you’re unable to find what you need that’s great too. If you cannot have what you choose to view on the net and choose to view it that’s all great too.
Until it turns into addiction, yet, that’s another rant altogether isnt it 
